Often, we don’t really want the things we want. The things we covet. The things we obsess over. All the various things, be they items or jobs or vacations or even fame or riches. We don’t want the thing.
We want what we think those things will get us. What those things will provide for us. All the ways of being that we can inhabit inside those fulfilled fantasies.
Unfortunately, things cannot give us that. They may – quite usefully! – grant us a stage, an opportunity to generate it or have it show up, but it won’t get us it. It does not come bundled in the package. And it can never be the salve we are looking for.
So we try to get more. It’s never enough. We try other things. Not enough. We change things around. Still not enough. We may get distracted, amused, or even entertained, but only fleetingly. And never those ways of being we crave. We get trapped in the hamster wheel. Always searching, never receiving.
It is not by having that we can generate being. Or even generate doing. It is from deeper within. It is from intention, building upon a clear slate grounded in mindfulness and being present. The creation is internal, not external. The being begets the being.
From that starting point, things then become an amplifier. We truly can enjoy the things we have, do, or partake. Rather than being sought for mistaken purpose, things now can build on and further support the ways of being we have generated. We appreciate the things for what they are.
With our being in the lead and our things at our side, we can lead ourselves to joy, fulfilment, love, excitement, and gusto.