One of the reasons we may glom onto simple explanations and binary/dichotomous thinking while resisting nuance and complexity is because (likely often) we’re already tired from the social conditions of money and debt, of our living situations, of dominance shenanigans, of terrible design (urban and otherwise), and many other things causing friction, frustration, hardship, hurt, and just downright exhaustion.
And so, we think that we don’t have enough energy or enough brainpower to fully engage. It’s easier to go into full reductivist mode, listen to our inner hacks, and latch onto whatever we think will bring us the most comfort. Sometimes (often?) with a touch of make-wrong so we can also pretend we have agency by labelling others.
Now, it’s not that we don’t face a lot of friction in our everyday lives and that we don’t need to expend a lot of energy dealing with many things.* The thing is, by holding onto that excuse and unattentively and letting those hack stories take over, we rob ourselves not only of a lot of the rich and varied experiences that is available in life, but more unfortunately also of the chances of resolving those very things that we keep having to grind through.
It becomes a rut.
It may even feel designed purposefully designed. And, perhaps (often?), it is. Because to keep us stuck in this state allows those who loot and deprive us to keep on doing it. If we can’t engage, we can’t work towards ameliorating the system.
But that bit where we feel we don’t have the energy or brainpower to engage? That’s also a ruse (both one of our own and one they also peddle to keep us on the sidelines). We can take a breather**, then head in. A little bit here, a little bit there, working together, we can strive towards a more just, verdant, equitable, diverse, beautiful, and peaceful life for all.
* Though, mindfulness and ontological inquiry can make an amazing difference here – it was downright astounding to me just how much more smoothly all my days went once I’d begun taking myself on and practicing for a while. Doubly astounding was how much of that friction was self-inflicted…
** And with mindfulness in action we’ll be less drained to begin with, and able to dive in even more fully.